AGEISM IN TANGO: Natural or Controversial

AGEISM IN TANGO: Natural or Controversial? - with Robin Thomas (NYC)

In a recent discussion, Robin Thomas shares his insights on the issue of ageism within the tango community, a topic he approaches with caution due to its complexity and his reliance on personal experiences rather than formal data. The conversation was aimed at shedding light on how age discrimination affects the dynamics and opportunities within the tango scene.

Key Insights

• Nature of Ageism: Ageism in tango, similar to broader societal trends, naturally occurs as younger dancers often prefer dancing with peers, leading to segregation based on age.
• Impact on Opportunities: Older dancers, especially older women who are skilled, may face discrimination, reducing their chances to dance and learn.
• Learning and Comfort: There's a significant impact on the comfort and learning curve in tango, where age can affect one's ability to perform and connect due to physical factors like balance and flexibility.
• Community Dynamics: The pandemic accelerated age segregation in community activities, with younger dancers forming their own groups, which significantly increased their participation rates.
• Personal Experiences: Robin discusses his own aging process in the tango community and the adjustments needed to balance roles between dancing, teaching, and personal hobbies.
• Complex Interactions of Ageism and Sexism: Both ageism and sexism intertwine, creating complex social dynamics within the tango community, affecting interactions and perceived abilities.

Discussion Points

• Preferences for Younger Partners: A notable trend is observed where, particularly, male dancers prefer younger female partners, often for the perceived ease of guiding them through dances.
• Return of Young Dancers: Young dancers may leave the scene for other experiences but often return, contrasting with older dancers who might retire due to fatigue.
• Challenges for Elderly Dancers: Elderly dancers face unique challenges, such as the lack of respect from younger dancers and fewer opportunities for private lessons, impacting their engagement in the community.

Conclusion

Robin Thomas emphasizes the importance of discussing ageism openly in the tango community to better understand and address its impacts. This dialogue is crucial for fostering a more inclusive and understanding tango environment.